Love yourself first.
” If you don’t love yourself, how can you expect someone to love you?”. I had to think about what that meant. And it can to me, if I don’t love myelf, then my insecurities and imperfections would take over the best of me. I would be paranoid about what everyone would say about me, and for the dating-world, it would be a red flag. Loving yourself is the same thing as accepting yourself. ” Im perfect the way I am and I don’t compare myself to anyone. The way I see it, I’m from tanya’s world and you’re from your world. I don’t look like anyone, I don’t sound like anyone, I don’t dress like anyone,and I see life in a very different way than anyone I’ve ever met. So I’ve come to accept myself and my unique ways. I love everything about me, imperfections and all. The secret is that people’s opinions and remarks have no affect on you whatsoever, UNLESS you let it affect you. It’s all about perception, once you master the mind and fully understand that the mind is the controller and you’re the one pressing the buttons. Life will be much much easier. But believe me that certainly does not mean, you will be imnune to bad things or obstacles but the way you react to what happens to you, is…… The Key.
Start off the new year with that in mind.*
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where I can start, 2011 went by so fast that I’m seriously still in schock that it is over. I made goals and resolutions and every morning and I would wake up and skim through them and that was it. There were places I wanted to go and things I wanted to do that I didnt. I had no motivation whatsoever, those things were making my heart heavy and was like a burden I carried. I could have been able to do it, but everyday I asked myself why didnt I do them? I must confess my priorities are all over the place, and I spend money like there’s no tomorrow. The saying” tomorrow isnt guarantee, so live your life”. Well, I took that to the extreme. And now I absolutely hate that saying. My new motto is” live life like the a thousands more days in your future”. I believe you can do anything you set your mind to, just have some discipline to do them, and stake everything on abtaining it. That’s my resolution for 2011, JUST DO IT! Dont think, Dont over analyze, Don’t worry, Have a plan and get on it. A productive life is a happy life, stress and unhapppiness is a state of mind. Letting small things affect your life is the obstacle people create in their life, it took years to realize that, now Im ready to start off the new year right!
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